Do you really want to fuck a hundred girls to be happy or do
you just want to be able to know if there is a girl you find
absolutely attractive, you’d be able to go get her in your life?
I ask those questions because a lot of guys (Including my former
self) may think they want to be a player when in reality they just want to develop the skills needed to date the hottest girls.
You won’t be doing much of either if you’re a super nice guy all
the time but this post will help with that.
What It Was Really Like Being A
When I was doing nothing but trying to have as much no strings
attached sex as I could, yes I got laid often, and it’s because
none of the girls saw me as a ‘nice guy’.
It was difficult to keep girls around for over a month because
I was usually fucking them on the 1st meet up.
But the reason I was able to fuck so soon is because I wasn’t
They may have ‘liked me like me’ but my pride stopped me from
showing much affection; they know they have no chance of
being my girlfriend because I made it so obvious that I don’t
want that. (Still, they tried.)
If I were a really nice guy, they probably wouldn’t have been
so persistent. (There would be no challenge = no fun)
Once they realized they have nothing to work toward (making
me their boyfriend) they would fuck me until they get bored or
find a boyfriend. (One legitimately found God and stopped
having sex altogether.)
I was the guy they’d fuck on the low and not tell anyone about.
They couldn’t bring me around most of their friends and family
because of the criticism they’d receive.
Still, they found something in me that kept them coming back,
that something was the fact that I wasn’t a nice guy.
These girls would buy me stuff even though from an outsider’s
perspective I didn’t deserve it.
You can be a nice guy and buy stuff for girls, or you can be not
a nice guy and have them offer to buy you Chipotle and new
The choice is an easy one to make.
Easiest Way To Treat Nice Guy
Syndrome ⬇️ ⬇️ ⬇️
Whenever You Think An Action Would Be
Rude Or Offensive And You Shouldn’t Do
It, DO IT!
Basically you want to be the biggest asshole you can be for a
while until it becomes natural and you’re not super nice
Just a few examples:
- Hang up on her
- Tell her to shut up
- Ignore texts
- Don’t say thank you
- Hit her when she makes you mad (lightly)
Don’t look for ways to be mean, just whenever your mind stops
you from doing something you think would be considered
ignorant, do it.
This is just you learning to take less shit from girls and do what
You don’t have to be ‘mean’ forever, just for as long as it takes
to get over not doing what you want to do in fear of upsetting
When I was nice I would think in my head “damn this girl is quiet
as hell” or “damn this bitch won’t shut the fuck up.”
But I wouldn’t say anything because it might hurt their feelings
or they might call me rude and that would hurt my feelings.
The best thing to do in those situations would’ve been to
playfully grab her arm and say “what’s wrong with you, do you
go on mute sometimes?”
Or in the latter situation, turn my back on her so she shuts up
and if she doesn’t, make her.
Most of the time these actions make girls like you more, but
even if it pushes them away it’s still beneficial to your character.
You’re learning to do as you please without permission from
anyone like every man should.
That alone is what all girls really want in a man, the other stuff
they claim to want is bonus or bullshit.
I remember the last time a girl offended me and I did nothing
about it; it was around 2013, this girl rudely hit my cap off my
head and I did nothing but regret not tossing her in the pool.
Since then a girl has never offended me because I’m not easily
offended but if a bitch were to knock my cap off my head and
there’s a pool in the vicinity, she’s going in it.
In Order To Develop Elite Mindset You Must
Last month was Valentine’s Day and many boyfriends probably
bought a box of chocolate for their valentine.
But how many guys cut a hole in the box, put their boner
through it, and told her to eat it?
That example is probably not the best, albeit, it does show that
most guys are thinking ‘romantically in the box’ instead of
pushing themselves to the extremities of their comfort zone.
Simple mindset shifts like those transform you from a nice
guy to the unpredictable cocky asshole girls love, but you’d
never notice opportunities if you aren’t making an attempt to be
Mindset Shift – Hoes* Are Dumb. You
Have To Make Their Decisions For Them.
*Female you want to have sex with.
I’ve written already in this post but it bears repeating.
Start doing what you want to do with girls and stop asking
what she wants to do.
You don’t need her permission to do what you want.
Better to do what you want and have her tell you that’s not
okay than to wonder if it is okay, and not ever do it.
Fuck what she wants, especially if you haven’t had sex with her
She doesn’t get to tell you what to do.
Too many nice guys start falling for a girl and they let the girl
walk all over them because they are so in love with her or think
she’s different from the rest of girls out there.
These same guys won’t try to make a move (sex) because they
don’t see her as just some piece of meat, they think she
deserves better, and while that may be true, they are becoming
their own worst enemy.
They don’t lead situations, they let the girl decide everything
because they want to please her, and they are absolutely
terrified of doing anything to upset her or make her feel
In reality, the girl will have waited a very long time for a move
to be made, and it never comes, she finds someone else and the
guy is absolutely dumbfounded as to why she didn’t choose him.
He took too long, became friend-zoned, and wasn’t seen as a
man but a boy.
All because of his nice guy behavior.
Mindset Shift – Always Be Willing To Pull
Out Your Boner
You could fuck a girl once or twice and still be nervous around
her, it shouldn’t be the case.
Once you’ve seen each other naked your insecurities should
vanish; it should be a weight lifted off your shoulders.
You are in, you don’t need to put up an act anymore.
You may damn well do whatever the hell you want at this point,
she can’t make fun of you unless you get offended.
Something I’m really good at, is not getting awkward.
It’s a good skill to have because since I don’t let awkward
situations happen to me, a girl has no choice but to learn to not
feel awkward by my actions or else she’ll look silly sitting there
being awkward by herself.
There are guys with a whole girlfriend who still feel
uncomfortable awkwardness around her in certain situations.
You should be able to fart in front of your girl and play it off.
You should be able to walk around naked with a soft dick in
front of your girl and not feel uncomfortable.
I believe all insecurities should be eliminated once she has seen
your dick; aka, she shouldn’t make you nervous anymore.
As for girls you have not had sex with yet, I see no reason after
chilling more than once why you shouldn’t let her see your dick.
You are either not interested in sex, or you are a scared nice guy and wasting time.
My money is on the latter.
The next time you chill with a girl you know is feeling you but
you are nervous and not sure what to do, think about sex with
her to get a hard on, then pull it out on her.
Best case scenario, it leads to sex, worse case scenario, it
doesn’t lead to sex, but you are exponentially less of a nice guy
now that you know what it feels like to do what you really
want to do instead of caring about what she would think of you
for doing something so bold.
(Most chicks dig bold behavior, something nice guys simply never
Tip – lose the boxers.
You’ll be more likely to whip it out on girls and public sex
becomes easier; not to mention easier access for her.
Mindset Shift – Start Eye-Raping Girls
I mention a lot when you look at a girl, especially when talking
to her, stare into her soul.
This is not only a great way to get a kick out of everyday life
and stop taking yourself so seriously, but it is actively bringing
you closer to eliminating the nice guy in you.
When you cross paths with girls treat this like a game, make eye contact with her and do not break it.
Get her to look away or play eye-sex with you.
Work your way up to winking, blowing kisses, and then full
blown eye-raping, biting your lips while looking her up and
You can have fun with it and even do the universal licking some
Obviously go talk to any girl who smiles at this little game, it’s
the perfect set up for aggressive filtering where you touch her
arms or play with her hair while flirting heavily.
This also leads into viewing every decently attractive girl as an
As soon as you see a girl you’d fuck, lets say, walking down the
same isle as you, or crossing an intersection you’re on, or even
waiting in line at the grocery store, you need to be ‘on’ at all
From now on, every single girl is a 50/50 chance fuck but it’s
always going to be 0% if you don’t make an aggressive move.
Do this enough times and no girl will mistake you for a nice
Mindset Shift – Don’t Declare ‘Girls Are
Sluts’ When You’re Not The One Fucking
Nice guys say all the time that there are no good girls out
there, they are all sluts.
What they are really saying is “I don’t fuck girls so I’m just going
to call them all sluts.”
How about you fuck the sluts and not care about them cause’ they’re sluts?
That sounds like a healthier, happier way to live.
Use their slutty behavior against them; degrade them, treat em’
like shit, and maybe, just maybe, they will learn being a slut is
not what it’s about.
Until then, don’t give a fuck about a slut’s feelings.
Yes, find a good girl, but get some action from the sluts until
Nice guys don’t know how to differentiate a low-key hoe from a
They’ll end up getting used and / or cheated on.
Fortunately, there is a sure-fire way to ensure this doesn’t
happen to you, it’s called no-strings-attatched sex.
What Happens Next?
Once you learn to stop being so nice and be a little more
selfish, you will learn when acting nice can actually benefit you.
Here’s the thing though, acting nice will only benefit guys who
don’t project nice guy aura.
Girls looking for a relationship want the best of both worlds,
a guy who’s not a total pussy, but not a total meathead either.
The balance they are looking for is an ‘asshole’ who can be nice
when he wants to.
Don’t get caught up in trying to act too cool like you “just
I’ve seen my friend not fuck girls he could have because he
“wasn’t trying to let her catch feelings cause he doesn’t really
Acting like that probably made the girl attracted to him (he has
options) but he forgot to capitalize on the most important part
about not being nice, fucking her.
I’m not telling you to be a tool who picks fights with everyone
and thinks they’re cooler than everybody else.
I’m telling you to stop being so willing to please.
Nice guys just don’t seem to get that a girl is never going to
make the first moves or say “ok fuck me now.”
You have to take action whether it be putting your hand on her
pussy or pulling your dick out; two things a nice guy would
– Written by Brandon Ramlal™