A really good way of getting over nervousness or anxiety when
walking up to random girls is to complete the 8-week
Approach Anxiety Program from Good Looking Loser (dot) com.
After approaching so many females I have no problem walking
up to one, shaking her hand, and speaking to her about
The same thing will happen for you if you take this free
After a while, I learned how to gracefully handle rejections.
I realized there are so many girls out there to talk to that I
basically have infinite tries to get it right and if I get rejected by
one girl, it does not matter.
And most importantly, nothing bad ever happens.
I started choosing to look at the positive side of things like “maybe she’ll take it in the butt” over “fuck what if she tasers me
or has a boyfriend.
I’ve had guys come up to me mad that I was talking to their
girlfriends and at most I’ll say something like “oh I didn’t know
she was taken.”
One time at the mall I had some guy come up to me mad that I kept talking to his girl after she said she had a
I was sure he was going to swing at me.
I stood tall and looked him straight in the eyes then all of a sudden he said “I respect you bro” (lol) and gave me a handshake.
Proof that only good can come from talking to girls.
Doing the program is a form of shattering your comfort-zone’s
It is all about going as far as you can go until you don’t feel
ashamed of being aggressive.
Sometimes I would purposely bother the girls who told me to
It was my own way of getting out of my own comfort zone.
Before the program if a girl was rude to me or not interested,
I’d probably feel awkward or just plain stupid.
After the program if a girl wasn’t feeling me I’d just laugh at her.
Probably a shitty thing to do, but to me it was worth it.
It pays to talk less and move faster when interacting with girls,
the program really opened my eyes to that.
Once I found out that grabbing a girls hand and spinning her
around while slapping her butt in 5 seconds would get me
further than throwing words at her for half an hour, I pretty
much kept talking to a minimum and touched them as much as I
I would use some line about how I have anxiety and need to be using my hands when girls would tell me I’m being
Chris (author of GLL) coined the term ‘screening’ which means you
want to get the girl in or out.
There is no better way to get a girl in or out than touching.
If she’s in, she’ll let you keep on touching her.
(Try to move closer to the fuck)
She’s not out unless she aggressively pulls away and tells you
(Stop wasting time on her and find a different girl)
You’ll see me use the word ‘filter’ in-place of screening so I
don’t feel like I’m totally ripping off his work, he’s obviously
a big influence in my life.
When completing the drills laid out in the program, I made sure
of 3 things:
- Talk To The Hottest Girls
- Don’t Skip Drills
- Finishing As Quickly As Possible Is The Main Priority
The program built my confidence, and it was hella fun.
It took me forever to get started because I thought I didn’t
need it until one day I told myself I was a pussy if I don’t do it.
It really is fun as fuck.
I became cooler. (I was an enthusiastic magnet attracting
what I wanted)
The program made me want to better my appearance.
I completed the drills in 6 weeks because it was so fun.
I did up to 3 drills in one day, I just made sure I never skipped
a drill and re-did weak performances.
It got me out of the house and built momentum to go out and
hit on girls like no big deal.
The drills are designed to be harder everyday but for me, they
The hardest part was the first week.
I have less anxiety walking up to a girl and hugging her than pretending to want to know where a grocery store is, but that’s
the point of the drills, to get over your anxiety.
I could go on for days about this but long story short, it was
one of the best things I ever did in my life, and I highly
recommend it to any guy.
It’s worth at least $100 but it doesn’t cost a penny.
All you have to do is click below to get access, and start day 1
By the way, it helped my confidence a bunch to do the drills
with an inflated penis.
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– Written by Brandon Ramlal™